More Resources & Information
When Asking a Friend Is Just Not Enough
MOR & more is dedicated to supporting the mixed-orientation community by providing resources for both partners of mixed orientation relationships. MOR Community Support was created as a safe environment to share our communities' stories and experiences and we welcome you to join. In addition to MOR Community Support, we recognize these other amazing resources. While not directly affiliated with MOR & more these resources have either been vetted by our admins or recommended by group members at some point. We encourage checking out and sharing them with your partner. Not all of them are only MOR related but someone somewhere found them helpful along the way.
If you, a partner, or a friend have found resources that you would like to share, we encourage you to reach out via our home page suggestions form.
MOR Groups for
Both Partners
Groups for
Straight Partners
Mixed Orientation Relationship
This group exists for straight spouses of any gender to hear honest stories of how others are making their mixed orientation relationships work while holding space for the difficult parts of being in a MOR.
Erasure: A Community For Bi Men
Named for the phenomenon of the bi erasure many bisexual men face, this community is for those who may feel alone because of their orientation.
Bisexual Reddit
The r/bisexual Reddit group supports bisexuals, pansexuals, omnisexuals, and more. If you can't work out if you're straight, gay, or if your may be somewhere in between, this group is for you.
Books and Publications
Some of our favorites:
Bisexual Married Men: Stories of Relationships, Acceptance, and Authenticity by Robert Cohen
The Seven Principles for Making Marriage Work by John Gottman PhD & Nan Silver
The Pegging Book: A Complete Guide to Anal Sex with a Strap-On Dildo by Cooper Beckett, Lyndzi Miller
A Positive View of LGBTQ: Embracing Identity and Cultivating Well-Being by Ellen D.B. Riggle & Sharon S. Rostosky
Additional Resources & Therapy
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